From the hospital part 2

Hey there again,

Been bad at writing but never been any direct time for it.
And far away from priority as well, but now Gabriel is sleeping after they removed the protection or what you can call it on his head.

I guess you as well followed up on Katjas blog as well and if so there is no point of me telling what happend..
Everything is OK and he is back to the same Gabriel as before, happy and always with a calming smile.

As Katja now spend 2 nights and days in row in the hospital she is now home sleeping a bit to as well take the last night. I must say that well that I always said.. she is the best wife/mom ever.
I have been stomach sick since Saturday night, after a fucking fast dinner at Mc FUCKING Donalds.. (Will never go there again for sure and I will never advice someone else to go there in the future hehe).
Well had a burger and went back for the night in the hosptial..
Ended up me be awake full night with maybe 30 min - 1h sleep rest spent with both gabriel and with the toilet.

I was scared now .. that maybe if there was not just something I ate .. maybe it was something that I can spread to Gabriel?? If that would happen I would never forgive myselft. Not 1 day after the operation and was thinking what could happen..
So Katja adviced that I will spend the nights home and ofcoz as I just wanted spend as much time with them as possible during the day.

Now it feels a bit better, havn't been eating anything directly since saturday.. well..
I had some small food as start and will try to eat a sandwish today as well.
Been drinking alot of water for sure..
But it seems to be better and better..

Now since we have to stay here 1 extra day that maybe we thought we decided that we will move gabriel and katja directly after he will leave the hospital .. and go directly o the new appartment.
So .. today 2 hours ago I went to sign the contract for the new appartment and got the keys.
It will be sooo good for us all to move.
Close to the International School of Madeira and as well close to work, no more taxi rides needed at all.. yey! That will save us some money at least.

Now Gabriel is sleeping.. he looks so cute .. with his bear over his face.. (he likes to sleep having something over his face.. looks strange but he likes it so why not?)

Well well now when Katja comes back I will go back to the "old" appartment and start to pack most of the last things.
Alot os packed already but still alot .. yeah .. ALOT of stuff still to pack.. (I HATE MOVING!!!!) hehe..
But most is cloths and well stuff in the fridge like food and so on.. that I will take for last.
Have tomorrow to after dropping Katja and Gabriel off in the new apartment.. I need to go and get a Micro .. strage first apartment that I seen without it.. but that is for sure something we need.

Now to something else regarding this hospial..
There is something both me and Katja well dont understand, and well hate most of it here.
As you all know, we have been in intencive care for 2 days and then back here to the normal child care 1 floor up.
Most people that works here is very nice and helpfull, BUT.... there is the evil nurses for SURE!

Just to set some examples? ok .. well if you think this examples is like why is he complaing? Well fuck you, then you dont have a child for sure ok? So just .. F*** off..
For you who understands what I mean now .. thank you.. I hope? :)

Nurses that as soon you dont absolutly understands their language .pt or english they just CUT YOU OFF! Like asking for FOOD for gabriel.. I today had to ask 3 times.. 2 times to the same.. that didnt do it.. the last one that did it..

Nurses here that should not be working with kids even if they work in the baby nursery? This is scary..
What this nurses does is just shitty, go into the room to check if everything is ok (ooh soo nice you say yeah?) well at 00.10 or whatever time it is when gabriel at least is sleeping or veeery close to sleeping the fucking nurs starts to snapps his fucking fingers and says OLÀ ...OOOOOLÀ (yes this is worth WITH CAPS!).
WHY THE HELL ... Is it allowed to punsh someone that is I guess allowed to fuck up a parents sleep/babys sleep like that? Leave him alone and let him ffs sleep ok kkthxbyebye!

Then we have the well donno lets say cleaning bitches from hell.. or are they nurses too?
Do they have kids and understands that when a baby sleeps its nice to have some silence around him/her?
Well no they dont understand that at all.. trust me .. not even in IVA/Intencive Care.
There is a place that I for sure thought had rules regarding sounds and so on..
Nooo lets just walk in .. in the late afternoon/night and start to clean trashbins.. and no dont take it out from the room, just start to make ALOT of noice with plastic bags and papers.. for at least 5-10 mins then you have done your job..

Then I think there is the most common portugues person, and I AM SO SORRY for the portugues people that will maybe read this.. but this is very common for peope here and maybe some other places but.. why do you have to talk so high?
The temper of the voice is like boosting to max when they talk.. fine to do that outside where it is alot of noice and stuff yeah sure.. nooo problem. but just outside a fucking door inside the hospital where a small baby just had his operation? at NIGHT? I thought they where angry and so on but noo .. ether they where drunk or just in a good mood..

Hope you alll understands what I write here.. it's just some small things you have to deal with.. well I dont feel like dealing with it.. they are working here and some of them for sure just do what they have in their contract .. if it doesnt say anything else .. then dont help out... and dont give advices...
Maybe we should all be like that .. ending up beeing cold, just care about our selfs and so on..
Anyways .. my frustrations about this is not alot .. maybe feels like that when you read this but..

There has been soo many good moments with ALOT of good people here helping out, cheking up gabriel.. asking if we want to take 1 hour off to eat or 5 min for smoke and so on.. and as well helping out explaning when the other nurse cant explain so good in english and the few words in Portugues didnt help us.. well I must say THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for all the help we got in the hospital.

And as well want to say THANK YOU SO MUCH to all the people out there that as well been so worried regarding the operation.

Now I guess I wont be writing anything else until we moved.. so bye bye and thank you all!